Saturday, May 28, 2022

Birds & The Bees Talk...Sighs

 So one of the things I been thinkin bout is after 2 years whether I should quit my job and go into freelance programming from home. I got more to read about how to sustain a income and do this on my own time as well but it is definitely a thought. I had set up appointments for me and Cassandra to have our make over this saturday and can't wait, we really need bonding time. I feel like since she has become a teenager I don't see her like I used to. She has been seeing this guy at school Tam is cool and all but I worry if he is a bad influence. Whenever he is around she is dark and gloomy and so is he like they really enjoy just talking about depressing things in life. I'm pretty sure he has depression the way he talks sometimes. Anyways I cam home early today from work and Alexander was upstairs doing his school work like always such a straight a student. But I heard noises from the downstairs bathroom as soon as I walked in. I was pretty sure someone was having sex and wasn't sure if I should barge into the bathroom or not so i felt the need to wait. I went to the living room and waited til what ever was going on was over. It was either one of 2 things at this point my daughter was having sex or my husband was cheating on me.


 After about 15 minutes Tam walked out of the bathroom smiling until he saw me and he waved and then ran out the door. Then i faced my daughter who rent straight into how to lie her way out of this. I mean she is 17 do I think this is her first time she says it is but either way her little brother was upstairs and it should not be done under this roof and she needs protection. I then had to sit down through the roughest conversation as a parent. The birds and the bees was long over due and i told her we were taking her to get birth control pills on saturday soon as we get done there we can get our makeover done. As for tonight i told her she was to do homework then go to bed i was so disappointed in her. She is just lucky it was me that walked in not her father. 

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